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9 Steps to changing any negative situation
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1. Find the will of God for your situation in the Word of God. John 17:17

2. Source scriptures that agree with your desired faith outcome and write them down. Habbakuk 2:2

3. Pray the promise of God for your situation using the scriptures you sourced when you pray. Believe at the moment you pray that you have the promise because the Word says so not how you feel. 1 John 5:14; Mark 11:24

4. Find a photo of your faith goal to use as a visual aid to crystalize your faith outcome in your heart believing that it’s yours now! See your condition changed, you’re in the relationship, career, home, on the vacation, your body is healed your family restored. Joshua 1:8

5. Tape your Faith Habit Goal Card in a visible place. Thank God daily for what you believe you receive despite what you see or how you feel. Proverbs 29:18

6. Create a confession in agreement with the Word of God that is personal and in present tense. For Example: I am healed, not I will be healed; Every need is met, not every need will be met. Job. 22:28

7. Say this confession persistently day and night. You will have what you say. 
Hebrews 10:23

8. Stay away from negative people and environments. Resist the temptation to prove anything while you work the faith process. 1 Corinthians 15:33 AMP

9. Fill your heart up by listening to a minimum of 1 hour of biblical teaching daily to build your faith and keep your thoughts in agreement with the Word.
 Proverbs 4:23

Overcoming Addictive Behavior
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Process to Break Free from Addictive Behavior

1. Be honest with yourself

2.Repent for sinning against God

3. Choose to make restitution where possible

4. Renounce the Open Door & Lordship of Satan

5. Forgive Others

6.Evict Satanic Encroachment

7. Trust the Word and not Your Feelings

Your words have power. Remember to speak this confession daily as you break free from addictive behavior.

Confession of Faith to Overcoming Strongholds In Your Thinking

Today I glorify God in my life and walk in authority.  I surrender my thoughts, will, intellect, emotions and imagination in complete obedience to the Word of God.  I believe the Word and I speak in faith.  I command all strongholds and mental thought patterns not in Gods will for my life broken and cast out! I declare circumstances are changing in my favor & I have what I say!

My body belongs to God and I make my flesh obey the Word.  I am healed mentally, emotionally and physically. I resist the temptation to sin or to go back to my old way of living. The devil is under my feet & nothing shall by any means harm me. No plague shall come near my house. I am anointed!  I overcome all attacks and any setback of the enemy by the blood of Jesus & the Words of my mouth. No weapon formed against me shall prosper!

In Jesus’ Name

How Giving Saved My Life

Written by: Standeline Thomas

Imagine your spouse, the major bread winner, coming home unexpectedly early and telling you they lost their job. Now imagine them not getting an equivalent job (or anything close to it) for 2 years. That’s my story.

Let's start from the beginning. In 2010, we were living the cushy life. We had just bought our house the year before, had our first child, and had savings in the bank. The sudden loss of income was a shock.

According to my husband I took the news much better than he thought I would. I saw no purpose in freaking out. He was an engineer and had great work history. Plus, we had a lot of travel plans coming up, so this was a blessing in disguise because we wouldn’t have to ask for any time off from his job. “He should get a job in a couple of months,” or so I thought.

One of those travel plans was to a church conference in Houston. We made our way there not sure what to expect, but expecting to receive something. Sitting in the giving moment, I felt we had to give all that was in our account, but I wasn’t sure how my husband would handle it. I asked him what he wanted to give, and it wasn’t everything. When I told him that God was telling me to give it all, with no hesitation he said, “Let’s do it.” That’s when I freaked out! We had never given so much money at once! I had been secretly hoping he would fight me on it so I could cop out.

That night we threw it all in. We didn’t discuss it with anyone. We were in agreement and that’s all that mattered. The next morning we checked our bank account and we received an additional check from the lost job for more than what we had given the night before! We got back home and received another check in the mail! For a whole year we were receiving unexpected money from various people.

Even with that it still wasn’t enough to sustain the life that we had. We were falling behind on bills and racked up a massive amount of credit card debt trying to stay afloat. We fell behind on the house payment by exactly 18 months and came very close to foreclosure.

My husband eventually got another job, but he was only making half of what he used to make and driving an hour to get there. He was only working there for 9 months when God spoke to him in prayer to quit. We didn’t know why until a couple of months later. A program that we had applied for and been rejected had changed their policies. If he had not listened to God when it came time to quit then we would not have qualified. This program paid for $25,000 of our back mortgage payments, over 95% of the total cost. This was $7000 above what they were originally going to give us. Even during our “season of lack” God provided. We went on 3 cruises, had 2 additional children, got a brand new car off the showroom floor, and never missed church (even though we lived an hour away lol). We came out of the situation not missing a beat.

I know what you’re thinking: “this sounds great and all, but what does this have to do with my situation?” We may not have the same exact situations but we all go through the same emotions, moments of doubt, loneliness, regret, feelings of confusion and abandonment. All of these come into play when you go through a battle like this. But you’re not alone! Here are 4 strategies I used to endure.

1. Take authority over your mouth

What you say in your low times can change your attitude. That’s when you need to speak and say, “This is only temporary and my situation can change in a split second because God is able.” My go-to phrase was, “Devil you’re not going to take my house. You didn’t give it to me so you have no right to take it.” That short script would remove that weight of devastation of my shoulders. You can find a confession here.

2. Build the right relationships

While everyone may have good intentions not everyone needs to speak into your life, even Christians. I made it a point to remove or limit my conversations with negative people. That went for even the parentals. Instead I would speak to my spouse, pastors, and most importantly God. I strengthened my relationship with Him because if anyone had answers He did. In my prayer times I would ask for strength, wisdom, witty ideas and to hear Him clearly above all my thoughts.

3. Let go of pride

It’s easy to feel as though you should have it all together. But the truth is you don’t… none of us do. That’s why we need Jesus! There is nothing new under the sun, so that means someone has gone through what you have. Pray for God to reveal the people you need to talk to about your situation. Pride comes before destruction, don’t let that be you.

4. Be thankful for even the smallest things

Faith is little by little. You don’t have to wait for the big reveal to be thankful. I am thankful for never losing electricity, always having gas when needed, my children not lacking in any area, etc. Celebrate all that God has given you because there is more coming.

You are well equipped for the battle you're fighting. Trust God and you will not lose a step.

 

Cultivating Your Garden
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Written By: Chauniqua Major

Like weeds in a garden, if not plucked at first sight, they will grow until there’s no sign of what was once planted.

This is what happens when negative thoughts and perceptions become rooted in a person’s mind.

Above all else, God wants His people to prosper and to be in good health. (3 John 1:2) It only makes sense then that most people are challenged in the areas of finances and health, which include mental, physical, spiritual and emotional.  

Given that everyone struggles with these topics at some point, taking time on daily basis to cultivate one’s garden is crucial. To be clear, this isn’t an outside garden, but a person’s internal foundation that makes up who they are.

With that, you might wonder how to properly tend to your internal garden in the face of everyday struggles, and be successful at it.   

Here are three action-based ways to cultivate your garden:

1.     Create a Confession

This is a believer’s battle cry! It’s an opportunity for you to write out everything you desire to be. It can long or short, but it must be present tense, personal, said consistently with a believing heart, and followed up with actions. Example: Jesus, thank you that I’m healthy, and in the best shape of my life. I eat the best food to nourish my body, work out daily, and see myself the way You see me.

2.     Examine Environments

This is where you can determine what’s happening in your space. Are your friends speaking affirming words and/or cultivating a place where you can pray and hear from God? If not, it’s time to dig up roots. Even the most fertile garden can’t grow if it doesn’t have access to the sun.

3.     Believe in God’s Love

In life there are times when our gardens can be so damaged that it’s hard to believe God is still there or able to help. This is far from the truth. God is present, always available, and willing to aid in every situation. It’s His desire that His people are fruitful and rooted in Him. Continue to believe this regardless of how you feel.  

These are three approachable ways that you can create a healthy life in God. Go from just living to thriving and enjoy an abundant life that will bloom and flourish from your garden!